The Well You Guard

Jackie Overstreet • January 20, 2026

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Why over-sharing is a signal, not just a habit, and how Jesus Christ trains discernment

Learning to trust God is not only about surrendering outcomes, but it is also about surrendering your plans and your instincts. I realized that the impulse to over-share, to fill silence with details, is often rooted in trauma, long before memory forms, designed to make us feel accepted and safe.


We carry these habits into adulthood, unconsciously, offering pieces of ourselves to test reactions, hoping for connection, yet risking exhaustion, misunderstanding, and exposure.


Speak everything to be accepted

The truth is this: discernment and restraint are not self-denial; they are training for faithful obedience.


Jesus Christ is King. He teaches us to steward our words and our hearts, to recognize when silence serves clarity, when restraint protects purpose, and when trust in Him allows the right expression to land at the right time.


This is the Heart GPS, recalibrating instincts, teaching the soul to navigate conversation, emotion, and relational pressure with precision and obedience in Christ.


Where in your life are you over-sharing out of fear or habit, and what would trusting Jesus Christ with your voice look like? Share this with a friend.


Focus Point

Faithful discernment grows when we trust Jesus Christ with our voice and our instincts.

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